Obituaries

Ervin Allen
B: 1977-08-03
D: 2017-11-20
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Allen, Ervin
Edith Robson
B: 1926-02-09
D: 2017-11-15
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Robson, Edith
Paul Wilbur
B: 1947-07-06
D: 2017-11-12
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Wilbur, Paul
Paul Day
B: 1931-09-30
D: 2017-11-09
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Day, Paul
Patricia Newhouse
B: 1942-03-16
D: 2017-11-03
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Newhouse, Patricia
Barbara Villarreal
B: 1938-11-21
D: 2017-10-24
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Villarreal, Barbara
Paul Finney
B: 1935-11-06
D: 2017-10-24
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Finney, Paul
Austin Kotchey
B: 1997-01-26
D: 2017-10-21
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Kotchey, Austin
Mary Smith
B: 1958-08-04
D: 2017-10-20
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Smith, Mary
Donna Sislock
B: 1940-08-19
D: 2017-10-20
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Sislock, Donna
Mark Baker
B: 1959-02-24
D: 2017-10-19
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Baker, Mark
Reba Henderson
B: 1929-08-31
D: 2017-10-10
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Henderson, Reba
Carol Huber
B: 1932-05-06
D: 2017-10-07
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Huber, Carol
Gerald Shearer
B: 1930-11-07
D: 2017-10-05
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Shearer, Gerald
William Myer
B: 1977-07-07
D: 2017-10-04
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Myer, William
William Houseworth
B: 1925-11-15
D: 2017-10-03
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Houseworth, William
Arlene Derr
B: 1923-08-20
D: 2017-10-03
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Derr, Arlene
James Bivens
B: 1946-01-10
D: 2017-09-27
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Bivens, James
Benjamin Lepperd
B: 1942-05-14
D: 2017-09-26
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Lepperd, Benjamin
Wilbur Hamsher
B: 1949-10-06
D: 2017-09-25
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Hamsher, Wilbur
David Moser
B: 1952-06-30
D: 2017-09-21
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Moser, David

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The death of a loved one is life's most painful event. People's reactions to death remain one of society's least understood and most "off-limits" topics for discussion. Oftentimes, grievers feel totally alone in dealing with their pain, loneliness, and isolation.

Grief is a natural emotion that follows death of someone dear to you; and to one degree or another, it hurts. It is like an open wound which must heal.

At times, it can seem as if this healing will never happen. But, sometimes the healing process can take much less time than we have been led to believe. Grieving is purely an individual experience.

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The ultimate goal of grief and mourning is to take you beyond your initial reactions to the loss. The therapeutic purpose of grief and mourning is to get you to the place where you can live with the loss in a healthy way. To do this, you have to make some necessary changes in your life, including:

1. Changing your relationship with your loved one—recognizing he or she is now gone and developing new ways of relating to him or her. Take comfort in knowing your relationship will continue - it will just be different.

2. Developing a new sense of yourself to reflect the many changes that occurred when you lost your loved one.

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